Wednesday, 15 August 2018

16/8/18 Niten Ichi with Kong Eu

Should I meddle with external affairs?

I kinda like this guy.  Much like a kindred spirit of some sort.

Most of these djs are from good background.  Pretty stringent selection  I must say.

Btw, TraXXfm is my Cybernetic Loop. It is a positive feedback mechanism. Its working fine since this is my day 13 quit smoking. I even started my couch to marathon training just by listening to your input

I met a babe at the Quit Smoking Clinic the other day. She is a Manager at JW Marriott. A pretty inspiring lady. Her name is Nurrita Nizam.


[10:32 AM, 8/16/2018] Sharudin: Kereta ok? [10:36 AM, 8/16/2018] Nurrita Nizam: Workshop tak tau lagi apa hal [10:38 AM, 8/16/2018] Sharudin: Well don't tense up baby. In case you need to ease up, the gum helps. You my inspiration. [10:40 AM, 8/16/2018] Nurrita Nizam: Thanks [10:41 AM, 8/16/2018] Sharudin: The pleasure is mine

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Jill Button from [a] iddy biddy Keller, Texas followed my Tweeter. So I though[] of saying hi to her.


Hello there Jill. You are doing OK? I'm just starting my couch to marathon training so the whole body is creaking like a rusty old machinery. Went to watch Mama Mia movie last week. Pretty uplifting piece. You take care Jill. Btw, you can call me Sha.

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So all these are what Stephen Covey termed as Emotional Bank Accounts.  My interactions with them (Kong Eu included) are my  deposits,  I may withdraw my deposit later or I might just let it there earning me interest.

Like in the case of Els, I am now collecting dividends (although not much) by getting the responses on almost all my inputs.

She, though trying hard to resist my thought invasion eventually gave in because I already managed to get the top of her mind share.

Kong Eu was at one time my top of the mind share, but he shied away.  So now it's time to reel him back.

Every bank account is unique.  So I have to customize my actions to what make them tick.

In executing my actions, I am liken to a fisherman because I keep on casting my line.  But once they are hooked, then my role is switched to a farmer.  I need to cultivate them like what I am doing with Els.

It is important to note that these have to be people with the right attitude.  A compulsive liar and a swindler with create more bad than good.

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With you Juice, I just let you be.  You are my fixed deposit (you better be!).  Knowing you are around allows me to be free to experiment with the rest.  I can only do that when I myself is emotionally secure.

Also consider that all of us here represent one entity and those people are the external resources.  I don't like playing internal games.  My playing field is out there.  So guys, whatever it is we make it an open game.


I had always been a gamesman, but my games were geared towards win-win.  Often times I get screwed by those who were interested in win only game.  That is why my number one criteria of a winning team is attitude:


Bro, I am so intoxicated by your choice of songs. You the man brother. Inspirations oozes out of my brain while I work.


So my strategy with Kong Eu is by letting him [to] nibble.  Most importantly it must be sincere.

The key wor[k] with Kong Eu, is I got to make him VISIBLE because he sometimes feels he is invisible.  This is an easy win because all it takes is a win back.  Let me give him the Striking Cobra move:

Dude, you hit the right note. I am in love with the most wonderful woman in my life. Her name is Juice


I have not been playing with my bokken katanas for so long. I prefer doing the Spinmaster and the 8 Swordsmen while listening to the songs like the 5th Harmony song. So no more triple nunchaku, now I use 2 wakizashis with EIGHT Swordsmen! Awesome...


The last post was to test the parameter.  Is he up to it.  From this point on I listen intensely.

There...  I just showed you my whole footwork.  Of course I got to end with a bang:

Gosh Rex Montis, so hard to resist. I will be away from my keyboard. I will be listening though... "Shinu Kikai O Motomo",




If you prefer the emotional hook at the end, this is how it looks like:

Hey Rex, no more sadness yeah? There will be sunshine after rain, there will be laughter after pain, so why worry now? - Dire Straits, Why Worry.



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